Chances are you are here because of one thought floating about your mind. That thought is – get my wife back – get my wife back – get my wife back – I’m sure you get it.
I can sympathise with you because I was given the elbow in a big way and that single thought was my only thought for ages.
To start with you need to get a plan together. If you don’t you have little chance of getting her back. Fortunately there’s lots of good info out there from people who’ve won their ex’s back.
I’m not saying it’s easy and I’m not saying it’ll happen overnight but it’s certainly something you can do (get your ex back) with a bit of effort.
If you started gathering info now, how long do you think it would be before you figured you had a good plan? Possibly never as you just don’t know what is good and what is bull.
Here’s where we can use other people’s experiences. As we all function on the same mental level what works for thousands of others is going to work for us.
I’m a sceptic at heart and I thought I was throwing 40 bucks down the toilet but I was happy to be proved wrong. It worked for me.
One psychological trick wasn’t enough to get her back but it started a series of events that ended with us back together.
The trick I started with was one where I got my wife to actually phone me and initiate the conversation, without actually asking. I used the power of curiosity.
Curiosity is a huge factor in our daily lives. You only got to look at rubber-neckers gawping at an accident on the street. Curiosity drives us all.
When I phoned my ex I left a message seeded with a hook that would make her curious. As expected she was on the phone to me in less than 24 hours.
It was plain sailing after this as my wife was now doing the running after me. I had left a simple message loaded with a curiosity hook and she had taken it up from there.
I’d put money on it that 99% of people would respond in the same way to a message like that.
I had to capitalise on the fact she’d called me and this is where the rest of my plan came into play. Like I said earlier it isn’t my plan, I didn’t make it up, I bought it in a downloadable package for less than the cost of our last date before the split.
Was it worth it? Worth every penny to me and I can say that with hand on heart. If I was sure it was gonna work as good as that I’d have paid ten times the amount up front.
I can’t go into detail here of the tips and tricks as it’s not fair to give away other peoples hard work.
If someone has worked hard enough to put a (successful) system down in an easy to follow guide then I think they at least have earned the chance to sell it to you themselves.
What I can do though is point you in the right direction, the same direction I went in. When I was desperate to get my wife back it worked for me. I’m sure it’s worth a shot for you.
All said and done though she’s not coming back on her own. You have to make the first move. Or at least make the first move but make her think she made the first move. Powerful stuff my friend.
